Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Goodbye Elsa


Yah ampun, baru aja ngomongin Lulu, tadi gue telpon mama, in the middle of our conversation, si Sasa mati. Kasian sih, Sasa udah menderita, sakit parah sih dia, udah 2 hari diinfus. Baru aja gue bilang sama mama supaya bilangin Sasa, kalau Sasa mau jalan kita udah rela, eh semenit kemudian Sasa mati. Sasa udah 15 tahun umurnya, anjing kesayangan mama bgt.

Barusan bilangin Arie, trus Arie bilang:
arie.lie@randem.com.au (E-mail Address Not Verified) says: (1:59:53 PM)
iya cyg
arie.lie@randem.com.au (E-mail Address Not Verified) says: (2:00:00 PM)
emang udah waktunya
arie.lie@randem.com.au (E-mail Address Not Verified) says: (2:00:06 PM)
kan udah tua juga
arie.lie@randem.com.au (E-mail Address Not Verified) says: (2:00:10 PM)
jgn sedih2 yah
arie.lie@randem.com.au (E-mail Address Not Verified) says: (2:00:23 PM)
dia udah pegi ke tempat lebih baik
arie.lie@randem.com.au (E-mail Address Not Verified) says: (2:04:43 PM)
cyg ai jgn sedih yah
arie.lie@randem.com.au (E-mail Address Not Verified) says: (2:04:51 PM)
nanti baby sedih juga lagi

Sasa... I love you very much... rest in peace Sa... Love you always.

Pink Concert Part2

Ternyata baby sangat cooperative di dalem perut, I think my baby enjoyed the music too. Gue padahal nyanyi2 dan goyang2, tapi dia anteng aja tuh di dalem, gerak2 dikit, ngikutin mamanya nyanyi dan joged kali ye...

Tinggal papanya yang bengong aja nonton, untung panggungnya and aksi si pink bener2 spektakuler, ga rugi jadinya Arie. hehehe...

Trus trus... ada benefitnya loh hamil2 nonton konser, dimana orang2 antre panjaaaaang buat pake wc, gue bisa pake disable toilet, langsung dikasih masuk sama penjaganya. tadinya ga dikasih krn gue pake baju item and dia ga sadar kalo gue lagi hamil, as i walked out dia sadar trus panggil gue balik and kasih gue pake tuh diasbled toilet. yey!!!!

Setelah nonton, Arie bilang sama gue kalo dia seneng tadi nemenin gue nonton, gue keliatan bener2 seneng... duuuh my husband emang bener2 sweet... Thank you dear, muach!

Emang bener gue happy sekali pas nonton tuh concert. Pink was awesome! I like her so much... abg bgt yah, biarin deh. Yang dateng ke concert itu audience-nya bener2 dari anak kecil sampe orang tua... wow.













Goodbye Luna


Cuma mau nulis gara2 semalem inget sama Lulu, anjing gue yang lucu, masih ga percaya aja rasanya dia tiba2 mati, just like that, beberpa minggu lalu. Emang dia udah 13 taun sih umurnya, tapi masih seger bgt deh, masih super gesit. Dokter bilang karena heart attack, but who knows? Kalau emang itu sudah menjadi jalan-Nya, itu pasti yang terbaik. Good bye Lulu, rest in peace. I will always love you...

Monday, June 29, 2009

Ga penting

Baru baru sadar kalo orang2 punya pattern untuk pembuktian diri, paling engga sebagian besaaar orang2 di sekitar gue.

Pada saat kita masih kecil, yang kita pikirin cuma sekolah dan gimana caranya supaya uang jajan cukup buat beli apa yang kita mau. Gimana caranya supaya nilai2 ulangan bagus, dapet ranking dan bisa "pamer" nilai, bikin ortu bangga. Yang nilainya pas-pasan sibuk gimana caranya pamerin kekayaan orang tua dengan punya barang2/mainan yang wow.

Mulai teenager, trus kita mulai genit, yang dijadiin concern, gimana caranya punya pacar yg cakep dan ga malu2in kalo di"pamer"in ke orang2. Yang ga bisa dapet pacar keren mikirin gimana caranya dandan yang unik yang bisa bikin orang2 mikir kalau mereka cool.

Lulus smu, pusing mikirin ambil jurusan apa pas kuliah yang kedengerannya fancy atau universitas mana yang paling favorit supaya kalau ditanya orang, pas denger jawaban kita, mereka bisa melongo dan bilang "wooow..." Yang ga mampu dapetin itu, cari pilihan yang banyak dipilih orang, atau masuk universitas apa aja yang penting di luar negri atau lagi lagi sibuk mikirin gimana caranya ganti mobil yang lebih mahal atau dandan yang lebih heboh lagi.

Seleai kuliah, lagi lagi pusing, mikirin gimana caranya dapet kerjaan yang keren, dengan gaji yang angka nol-nya super banyak. Yang ga bisa dapetin kerjaan yang ok, pilihannya sekolah lagi atau kerja "bantuin keluarga". Yang penting harus keliatan sukses kalau ditanya orang.

Mulai kerja, sibuk ngisi waktu luang dengan acara-acara kumpul-kumpul sama temen, ngafe, clubbing, fitness, traveling atau apa aja yang lagi nge-trend, supaya dibilang gaul. Yang ga sanggup dengan gaya hidup seperti itu yah ikut kegiatan-kegiatan lain, yang penting harus kelitatan eksis.

Lewat usia 25 tahun, mulai makin banyak yang menikah, lalu mulai pusing lagi, terutama kaum2 hawa, untuk dapetin "soulmate" yang ok. Yang belum dapet dapet serabutan cari kegiatan laen buat ngisi kekosongan, supaya engga stress. Yang mau nikah pusing juga gimana caranya bikin pesta yang super spektakuler supaya jadi kehebohan di taun itu, untuk naekin gengsi tentunya.

Setelah itu mulai lagi saling beradu kemapanan, siapa yang paling bisa menampilkan image kemapanan, boleh senyum paling lebar, kalau bisa pasang berita di koran. Yang sedang sedang saja berusaha menghindar dari topik pembicaraan ini.

Beberapa tahun berikutnya, mulai pada punya anak, masing-masing sibuk bikin image untuk membanggakan buah hatinya. Yang belum punya anak, makin sibuk kerja ceritanya, atau ngarang alasan apasajalah yang penting keliatan tetep happy dari luar.

Umur 30, atau mendekati... semua makin deg-deg-an... bertanya-tanya pada hatinya, sudahkan kudapati impianku? sudahkah kucapai targetku? Apakah hidupku bergerak maju atau jalan di tempat? apakah aku sungguh-sungguh bahagia? Kalau belum, jawabannya cuma satu, "gue happy kok kayak gini, gue lagi menikmati hidup" yeah rite...

Yang jadi pertanyaan, kenapa hidup kok seperti penuh tuntutan? atau kalaupun kita engga bisa dapetin itu, kita mulai cari2 hal lain yang bisa dibuat sebagai alasan? Apakah hidup di masyarakat begitu susahnya? Atau kita sendiri yang terlalu sibuk ingin menciptakan image yang sukses di mata orang2? Sebegitu pentingnya kah menutup2i kebenaran demi sebuah pengakuan sukses dari lingkungan kita?

Jujur saya bener-bener bingung. Mungkin karena saya engga merasakan bagaimana rasanya kalau tidak mencapai semua target itu. Terangi saya dengan kuasa-Mu supaya saya bisa belajar untuk mengerti perasaan mereka ya Tuhan...

Nice words

One of my friend, named Pingkan, post this beautiful not on her facebook. I just thought it's good to spread the good news around, so i decided to post it here :)

Cara cara mencapai kerendahan hati
* Berbicaralah sesedikit mungkin tentang diri sendiri
* Uruslah sendiri persoalan-persoalan pribadi
* Hindarilah rasa ingin tahu
* Janganlah mencampuri urusan orang lain
* Terimalah pertentangan dengan kegembiraan
* Jangan memusatkan perhatian kepada kesalahan orang lain
* Terimalah hinaan dan caci maki
* Terimalah perasaan tak diperhatikan, dilupakan dan dipandang rendah
* Mengalah terhadap kehendak orang lain
* Terimalah celaan walaupun Anda tidak layak menerimanya
* Bersikap sopan dan peka, sekalipun orang memancing amarah Anda
* Janganlah mencoba agar dikagumi dan dicintai
* Bersikap mengalah dalam perbedaan pendapat, walaupun Anda yang benar
* Pilihlah selalu yang tersulit

(sumber: Buku saku Kumpulan Doa-Doa Anak Sang Timur)

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Baby & daddy




ini foto ultrasound baby Lie waktu masuk 2nd trimester (19 minggu)
mirip ga sama bapaknya? hehehe... i know nanti mukanya bakalan berubah2 tapi lucu aja pas angle foto ini dua2nya keliatan miriip! ;) yah eventually bakalan mirip kali yah, namanya juga bapaknya... hehehe...

RIP The King of Pop


Rest in peace Jacko...
He died of a heart attack yesterday

Here's the news from brisbanetimes.com.au

Michael Jackson is dead after suffering a cardiac arrest, sending shockwaves sweeping across the world and tributes pouring in Friday for the tortured music icon revered as the King of Pop.

Jackson, 50, collapsed at his rented mansion in the exclusive Los Angeles neighborhood of Holmby Hills and was rushed to hospital by paramedics before being pronounced dead at 2.26pm (0726 AEST) on Thursday.

One of the most influential figures in pop history whose career included the highest-selling album of all-time, Thriller, Jackson had been preparing for a concert comeback in London next month he had dubbed "the final curtain".

News of his death triggered an outpouring of grief as shocked celebrities, foreign governments and devoted fans from Beijing to Beverly Hills paid tribute to the troubled star.

Lieutenant Fred Corral, a spokesman for the Los Angeles County Coroner's office, said an autopsy would likely be carried out on Friday and would not speculate on the exact cause of death.

Jackson's brother Jermaine, the family's official spokesman, later revealed physicians had battled for more than an hour to revive the star after his arrival at the UCLA Medical Center before he was pronounced dead.

"Our family requests that the media please respect our privacy during this tough time," Jermaine Jackson said. "May Allah be with you, Michael, always."

As the sun began to sink over Los Angeles, a coroner's office helicopter bearing Jackson's body took off from the UCLA Medical Center, where hundreds of media and fans had gathered throughout the day.

Meanwhile police motorcycle riders surrounded Jackson's gated mansion as crowds of tourists and fans congregated.

Pop diva Madonna was among dozens of celebrities who struggled to cope. "I can't stop crying over the sad news," the singer said in a statement. "The world has lost one of the greats, but his music will live on forever!"

The star's first wife Lisa Marie Presley, the daughter of Elvis Presley, said his death had left her speechless.

"I am so very sad and confused with every emotion possible. I am heartbroken for his children, who I know were everything to him, and for his family," Presley told MTV News in a statement.

Political figures also paid their tributes.

California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger lamented the loss of "one of the most influential and iconic figures in the music industry".

British Foreign Secretary David Miliband also posted his thoughts on micro-blogging site Twitter. "Never has one soared so high and yet dived so low. RIP Michael," Miliband wrote.

But the most visible emotion came in spontaneous gatherings of fans here and across the world.

In Los Angeles Lana Brown, a 49-year-old tourist from Dallas, broke down in tears as she digested the news. "I can't believe we might have lost the best entertainer this world has ever seen," she told AFP.

In New York's Times Square, Chantal de Roy van Zuydewijn watched a giant screen broadcasting the news of Jackson's death with tears running down her cheeks.

"He is a legend. He is a genius," said the 28-year-old Dutch tourist, who had a ticket to the pop legend's scheduled comeback tour in July.

Jackson's death came as the singer prepared to make a keenly anticipated concert comeback in London, his first series of shows in more than a decade.

Jackson family attorney Brian Oxman said he had harboured concerns over the singer's condition, revealing that he had been taking prescription medication as he prepared for his comeback.

Oxman compared Jackson's fate to the overdose death of Playboy centrefold Anna-Nicole Smith, voicing concern over "enablers" in his entourage.

"The people who have surrounded him have been enabling him ... if you think that the case of Anna-Nicole Smith was an abuse, it was nothing to what we have seen in Michael Jackson's life," Oxman told CNN.

While Jackson ruled the charts and dazzled audiences with electric dance moves like the backwards "moonwalk" in the 1980s, his once-stellar career was overshadowed by his colourful public behaviour, his startling physical transformation and multiple allegations of child abuse.

He lived as a virtual recluse following his 2005 acquittal on charges including child molestation and plotting to kidnap his young accuser.

Despite his acquittal, the trial was a body blow from which the pop music superstar, who named his ranch after Peter Pan's "Neverland" of perpetual childhood and furnished it with Disney-inspired rides, struggled to recover.

Born on August 29, 1958, Jackson made his show business debut with four of his elder brothers in the Jackson Five pop group, and went on to lead the stage clan with a piping soprano and dazzling dance moves.

In 1979, Quincy Jones produced Jackson's first solo album for Epic, Off the Wall, a huge disco-oriented success that sold 10 million copies.

They teamed up again in 1982 for what would be Jackson's breakthrough album as a composer and co-producer, "Thriller," which became the top-selling album of all time, with sales exceeding 41 million.

Jones reacted with shock after being informed of Jackson's death Thursday.

"I'm absolutely devastated at this news," he said. "I just don't have the words. Divinity brought our souls together and allowed us to do what we could do through the '80s," Jones said.

Tommy Mottola, the former head of Sony Music who released Jackson's records for 16 years, said the singer had a place in the pantheon of American music icons, alongside Elvis and Frank Sinatra.

"It's one of the greatest losses," Mottola told the Los Angeles Times.

Crowds continued to throng near the UCLA Medical Center and Jackson's home late on Thursday, while street vendors selling hastily designed commemorative T-shirts for $US25 ($A31.09) sought to cash in.

Friday, June 26, 2009

OZ visas

Puji Tuhan mama papa & teguh had been granted OZ visa for 2 years!!! senangnyaaaa...
tinggal nunggu mereka dateng beberapa bulan lagi. Duuh udah ga sabar deee

PINK Concert


Yay! tonight we are going to PINK Fun House concert!!! how exciting!!!
Will post more photos later...

Moga2 baby ga pucing ya dalem perut mama denger suara berisik... tapi ini music kok, i think my baby will like it.

us at 28 weeks


Udah gede yah si baby :)

This photo was taken by Arie on June 17, 2009

Sweet Dreams Baby

Last night my husband acted too cute, he always talks to our baby at night before we go to sleep (well... literally speaking he actually talks to my tummy since our baby has not been born yet) but last night was really special, you know what he said to our baby? "Baby, ini daddy... sweet dreams ya baby ai tercayang..."

Owww... and my heart just melted right away... isn't he the sweetest dad-to-be ever?